Bmr31

Its over.

Hmmm so far nothing. I am on lunch now, no clue whats going on.

Well s***, its almost time to go into work.

Seriously, JR and the sox CANT be this stupid. What the hell does JM have on them? Anyone in their right mind would have fired Manuel by now.

:finger :fyou

I would do that deal if i was Paxson.

I LOVE that name.

Thanks. I am always completely honest, and today will be no different. However, I doubt i have "hope". If she told everything, and it surely seems as though she has, companies protect employees in those situations.

Me too. She gave guys her number. she stripped for guys on cam. She pretended she didnt have a boyfriend. She lead guys on. She flirted with everyone. One guy asked her out on a date and she had the nerve to tell me about it and when i asked her what she said, she told me that she told him MAYBE. Am i the only one who would find these things disrespectful to her boyfriend? If so then im an asshole. Hell no. Personally I would of ended it right then. Of course me being younger tends to mean I don't think as long term. I am very picky when it comes to picking a girl and I think thats rightfully so, simply because once I settle down I want whatever I have to be special. I think when stuff like that happens, everything after is pretty much a waste of time, unless that stuff happens because of immaturity (Like if you went out with a girl at 18 and go out with her again at 22 you'd expect her to change), but if its already a grown women, forget about it. I don't know the whole story, but I think your mistake was that you let things get personal. While it is a relationship, if s*** doesn't work, thats that and let bygones be bygones no matter what a b**** she was. You can't do anything about it other then get yourself in trouble and you thinking about it only makes the situation worse. Whats important is you learn from the past and make sure that past stays in the past and that you don't repeat it in the future. As long as you learn from your mistakes your ahead of most people or thats what I always say. In regards to the job, if your boss looked aside time after time, then he himself would be putting himself on the line. You could technically get involved with him saying he knew and never stopped it. Not sure if he'll think about that. What I'm guessing is he'll pull you aside, talk to you, and tell you some things. I also think you should talk to him and clear what you have to say (I mean if your almost positive your gonna get canned, I figure there is no harm in trying this) and say you made a mistake, etc. Also make it clear that you didn't do anything stupid, etc. When it comes to dating an employee to me its harder, but its fine. Its when you let your decisions at work get impacted by who they are when it gets in their way. So in the future, just because of this experience don't let the right person (if she happens to be a co-worke) pass you by. Before I quote myself as all gifted, I'm only 20 so I haven't really been through the school of hardknocks on relationships or anything and have never had a rough breakup, but I think thats mainly because I don't really let anything get to me. As I've said a few times already, hopefully you have a much better day then anticipated tomorrow. I did end it right there. Thats how it started to become ugly.

I heard that movie was funny as hell..................

Me too. She gave guys her number. she stripped for guys on cam. She pretended she didnt have a boyfriend. She lead guys on. She flirted with everyone. One guy asked her out on a date and she had the nerve to tell me about it and when i asked her what she said, she told me that she told him MAYBE. Am i the only one who would find these things disrespectful to her boyfriend? If so then im an asshole.

Dude....EXCELLENT movie.

THis is probably the 100th time ive seen this movie but damn what a movie. Highly recommended when you are buzzed.

Id agree with all of that if i didnt f*** up my dream job. THAT i doubt i can replace anytime soon. Dude its retail. Most retail store directors work 50 plus hours a week. I was working 30 tops. Out of the 30 i was working, i was actually doing WORK maybe 5 hours a week. I was a rising star.

I dont mean to sound like i am whining, sorry if that is the case. Just a real s***ty period of my life, I guess.

The end of the relationship was rough on me because im getting older and i thought after many years of suffering, i had found the one. Usually this hurts, and most people get AWAY from that person. Ihave been forced to see her everyday, with her threatening me and doing s*** on purpose to piss me off. Thats my explanation.

Lets see. I talked to her on the internet every single night for hours, for over a year. there are many emails, there are many IMS. There is a guy at work that i used to hang with that has seen her here. Im sure she has saved some of my text messages. As far as work, I really didnt leave any witnesses there, but i said things in private. I made several mistakes. Im sure we can all remember times we went through rocky breakups. Im human, sometimes u lose control of your emotions and words. Im a jackass and im paying for it. 1. As long as those text messages didn't have "I am gonna rape you, f***ing whore and that cocksucker [name of the said boss] won't have the balls to stop me!" type statements, you should be fine. Your private correspondence, even if traced back to you, is your business and noone else's. What do you have to be afraid of here? I am sure you have as much of incriminating evidence on the b**** as she has on you....Don't let her walk all over you. She can't get you fired without f***ing up herself, especially if she handing out with suspected criminals and drug addict scum just to get back at you. 2. I don't get your "woe is me" attitude. I may not have had a serious breakup track record, but from the looks of things you have had a great run full of passion and delicious conflicts...for a FULL, and then were good friends after that. That sounds like my first 3 relationships, all teenage ones. So what's the problem? She is not your soulmate afterall? That's tough, but this is the way you should look at it: YOU USED HER if anything else and since everything great must come to an end sooner or later, thank heavens for not getting stuck in a marriage with her....No, instead you are wiser and mentally healthier than before, full of great memories...Move on and seek a more fufilling tryst/relationship with a much better girl. You living well and actually improving yourself as a result of this mess will indeed be the best kinda of revenge. No doubt about that. Good adivce, but i think youre missing the point on the other thing. I doubt shes smart enough to do that but i dunno. Before i was promoted, my boss allowed me to get away with it. I dunno maybe im just paranoid.

Just an opinion..........i sensed that hawk and dj felt that JM left Colon in too long.

These shows are all staged. Theyre actors but its still funny as s***.

Lets see. I talked to her on the internet every single night for hours, for over a year. there are many emails, there are many IMS. Im sure she has saved some of my text messages. As far as work, I really didnt leave any witnesses there, but i said things in private. I made several mistakes. Im sure we can all remember times we went through rocky breakups. Im human, sometimes u lose control of your emotions and words. Im a jackass and im paying for it.

im dying here, these hicks on jerry springer are trippin

LOL! yeah, and earlier i was thinking i could be in jail. At least im free!!! :headba ng

Exactly, and you hit the key word. She is evil.