if he were it would show that the people don't have to be closeted anymore
if he were not, please don't use language that is demeaning to some people - it is like calling someone a "n*****" no matter how funny it may seem to be to use that term - unless you are one, and he's a pal, then go right ahead in personal conversation but please don't post it
not meaning to yell at you, just please don't fling that term