LasMediasBlancas is right it might and most likely will take along time to heal. Hell you might even go out with a diffent person and still be hurt but like LMB said " You will wake up and realize that for the first time in a long time you dont feel as bad as you did the day before" Your ex will learn in the long run that she ####ed up. My ex broke up with me after almost a year for no real reason, she would call, and give me false hope of us gettin back together till one day I said forget that and slowly started to move on, when she found out I was dating a real close friend of hers, she tried to get back with me and as bad as I wanted to didnt. Its been 2 years since then maybe more but I still remember how hurt I was. Its all good though because my girl is a big Sox fan and just loves going to games. Hopefully you will be able to get thru these hard times and are able to move on.