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Thanks everyone. I contacted Dad's rights and have an appointment with them on Wednesday. I'll see what they say on the matter and go from there. @Soxbadger you mind PMing me?

I don't have any social media.. never have. I was going to do it just in case, but if she goes through with this like she says, it won't matter anyways because I'm not liable (you are correct). I'm still gonna do it though after.

Well after talking it over, she's firm that she wants to keep it but she wants nothing to do with me and I want nothing to do with her (we borderline hate each other). She doesn't know where I live, where I work, last name, etc and she said she wants to go to court with me to give up my parental rights which I'm all for. Do you guys think this is the right approach? Should I change my number (which I'm probably going to do) so she can't track me through that just in case? I also wanna thank a couple of posters who have PM'd me through this ordeal. You know who you are and it meant so much to me. Thanks guys.

Thanks Joe. The crazy part about it is an old friend of mine did this to a girl that I knew in elementary school (they met in high school) and when he did it, he completely left her and to this day has never made an attempt since when you ask him.. he'll tell you he doesn't have any kids and here she is not giving a damn about him either and raising her kid. And back then I never understood his position on why he did that when they at least were dating.... now I know he wasn't ready at all. It just sucks that one dumb decision can be a complete 180 on my life.

This is a really shitty story for me and I am really freaking out about it. Personal... but what the hell I've known alot of you through here since I was 17. This girl and I have only a "platonic" relationship. She barely knows anything about me and vice versa. Well 7 weeks ago I was drunk and I trusted her when she told me she was on birth control. Obviously I know that it's not guaranteed but nothing happened prior so I gave it a shot again.. unprotected. I rarely do it, but I have in the past every blue moon and so far so good. Yes I know I realize this was a stupid, rookie mistake. Well... she just told me she's 7 weeks pregnant right in line with the day. We talked previously about abortion since neither of us want kids (her parents are also for it) but now she's having mixed feelings which is understandable with her hormones right now. She doesn't know where I live, where I work and even what my last name is. But... I have a guilty conscience to not just forget about it in the back of my mind if say... she keeps it. Guys... what should I do? I do not want a kid at all and at first she didn't. But now being so undecided has me freaking out plus she said the different methods of abortion she is allergic to (the anesthesia for surgery and something in the pill). Can't eat, can't sleep and haven't told anyone but one of my best friends about it. I just need a piece of mind about this one way or the other.

Been a rejuvenating year for him. And as Tony pointed out earlier, what a trade by Bowman to net Strome.

Yes you do. There's a log in.

God this board has missed you. @qwerty as well. @witesoxfan I can go on and on. Overall quality of this board has gone down considerably the last couple of years.

Great post.

Sad part is he is probably our best player now (depending on what you think of Lauri). Solid 2 way guy.

I can't believe they had the balls to trade Portis. Fantastic! BUT... would've rather them try and get a 1st rounder.

Yup. Can't count on these agents dragging shit out.

And they still have to pay Marner. Toronto is gonna be fucked up cap wise.

Bingo. Great post.

We saw where that got them last year.

Here comes the slobber fest for Brady who did nothing in this game.

Drew Brees is rolling over in his grave right now watching Goff's performance.

Edelman has to get MVP at this point... or Michel

Don't look now, but the Blackhawks are 2 points out of a playoff spot (yes that's how bad the Western Conference is). Kane pretty much has the MVP locked up if this team somehow manages to squeak in.

There were rumors the Oilers inquired about him but that was before their GM got fired.

Hawks had a buyer. Seabs said no.

Congrats to Kane. 900 points and counting. What a career.

LeBrun: Blackhawks will ask Duncan Keith about deadline trade.

Yea it was either Bagley or JJJ. They liked both.