QUOTE (Y2HH @ Jul 30, 2012 -> 08:31 AM)
It's sometimes hard to know what your max bench is without a spotter...so if you tend to work out alone, such as I do, performing maxouts isn't easy. I currently weigh about 162 (IMO, I'm about 10lbs over my target weight), and I can bench over 230...how much over, I don't know...because without a spotter I won't even try. Don't overdo it unless you have a spotter. Just go after small gains, a week at a time.
I would suggest you make friends at the gym (if you don't have them already). My buddy and I are both programmers so we have a lot in common and it just came to him that he wanted to work out w/ me. Fortunately, he's been serious about it. I've had friends that just go "to go" but we are actually feeding off of each other. There's usually pretty cool people around to give a spot when my friend isn't able to make it.
P.S. I benched 240lbs this Monday