Bmr31

No. No. No. Believe it or not, she was a good girl. WOW. She's the exception to the rule. Mind if I ask more questions as a follow-up, or are am I rehashing s*** that you don't want to discuss? NAh its cool. Ive been responding to see how i react and feel and im totaly fine. Ive been over her for months, but it looks like im ok with losing my job now too. Go ahead....

No. No. No. Believe it or not, she was a good girl.

Arrange it!

And we all know we never do as we are told lol. Unless we're TheBigHurtBEGOOD. Hey, from now on, I'll sign off on all my posts with... BE BAD Heather i think you should BE BAD

People i said experts. I dont need people to point out the mistakes i have made. Ummm i think i am well aware of those okay? Jesus.. You should have known ahead of time that dating a co-worker and/or employee is a bad, bad, bad, bad idea. Stupid stereotype. Jim and I have a wonderful relationship and the bumps that others "tried" to put in the way made us laugh. Bmr's experience seems to be more of the ex being a b****. Not all work relationships end up that way. Thank you, I appreciate that. To sum it up in short terms, we were in love, she cheated, she did other horrible things, we broke up, she couldnt handle the rejection, and she finally snapped. As i told someone the other night, yes i made mistakes, but they were for love. Ugh, cheated? That is unacceptable man. Obviously she's got severe issues. So while YOU may have been in love, she must not have been (people who are truly in love do not cheat), and it ended up costing you a lot of heartache and hurt your career. You may have had good intentions, but it was a bad idea. That's not to say that office romances cannot work -- but the majority of the time, it's a big no-no. Dude i cant say i disagree. I mean i learned a huge lesson here. I trusted her more than anyone in the world and look where it got me. I put love ahead of my career and it came back and bit me. THat wont happen again, trust me. Supposedly, she cheated because she was insanely jealous of another female who was close to me, but s*** who cares, its still cheating. People who are truly in love DO cheat. Its their issues that make them cheat, not love or not being in love. I agree with you in a round-about way. People with issues like that are UNABLE to truly love someone, and it's from there that they cheat. So, in a way, yes, they cheat because of those issues. But, in reality, they are held back from ever truly loving somebody. I dunno man maybe, but the chic was totally obsessed with me back then. It looked and felt like love to me. She was into me more than i was into her, which was weird, considering she ended up cheating. ANyways whatever, shes past history. Im not gonna date anyone at work every again, trust me.

People i said experts. I dont need people to point out the mistakes i have made. Ummm i think i am well aware of those okay? Jesus.. You should have known ahead of time that dating a co-worker and/or employee is a bad, bad, bad, bad idea. Stupid stereotype. Jim and I have a wonderful relationship and the bumps that others "tried" to put in the way made us laugh. Bmr's experience seems to be more of the ex being a b****. Not all work relationships end up that way. Thank you, I appreciate that. To sum it up in short terms, we were in love, she cheated, she did other horrible things, we broke up, she couldnt handle the rejection, and she finally snapped. As i told someone the other night, yes i made mistakes, but they were for love. Ugh, cheated? That is unacceptable man. Obviously she's got severe issues. So while YOU may have been in love, she must not have been (people who are truly in love do not cheat), and it ended up costing you a lot of heartache and hurt your career. You may have had good intentions, but it was a bad idea. That's not to say that office romances cannot work -- but the majority of the time, it's a big no-no. Dude i cant say i disagree. I mean i learned a huge lesson here. I trusted her more than anyone in the world and look where it got me. I put love ahead of my career and it came back and bit me. THat wont happen again, trust me. Supposedly, she cheated because she was insanely jealous of another female who was close to me, but s*** who cares, its still cheating. People who are truly in love DO cheat. Its their issues that make them cheat, not love or not being in love.

I think a tat above the ass and a pierced belly are very sexy. Other than that, i kind of agree.

People i said experts. I dont need people to point out the mistakes i have made. Ummm i think i am well aware of those okay? Jesus.. You should have known ahead of time that dating a co-worker and/or employee is a bad, bad, bad, bad idea. Stupid stereotype. Jim and I have a wonderful relationship and the bumps that others "tried" to put in the way made us laugh. Bmr's experience seems to be more of the ex being a b****. Not all work relationships end up that way. Thank you, I appreciate that. To sum it up in short terms, we were in love, she cheated, she did other horrible things, we broke up, she couldnt handle the rejection, and she finally snapped. As i told someone the other night, yes i made mistakes, but they were for love.

Either a few people of different ages post from wsc screen, or he has mulitple personalities. One moment hes posting like a 5 year old and the next hes posting like an adult. I wouldnt believe or care about anything that he says.

Okay, thought so.

Okay ive seen that thing like 20 times and i am finally gonna ask.....what teh HELL does IIRC mean? If i recall correctly?

Dude i think clu meant he liked tats and piercings.

I seem to be involved in a lot of those.......

Nah she has neither sorry, But shes evil, manipulative and a chronic liar if those qualities interest you....... Tats and piercings are a deal-buster, brotha. Don't you remember my policies? LOL. And do you have a pic of her? I'd like to see what kind of poon you demand. Shes hot, real hot, ill give her that. That was my mistake........... Ya know what they say, the proof is in the puddin'. Show me the puddin'. I know you've got a pic of her. I dont. I cut up and threw away all her pics. Dont need or want any reminders. Besides, I dont have a scanner. Theres a pic of her on her yahoo profile, but its like 4 years old, so that wouldnt do any good. Sorry.... Darn, heh. Her Yahoo profile eh? I'll take a looksie. PM her ID to me if you don't want to make it public knowledge. Nah no way, shes a nutcase. I know you wouldnt contact her, but im not taking that chance. Ive made enough mistakes, call me paranoid. LOL, I'd e-mail her and be like "Bmr really misses you". LMAO. I understand, though. Any chance of you saving her pic on your hdd and just posting here? Here this is the best i can do, i can give ya the screen name of a chic who looks EXACTLY like her..................atelaphobia425. They could be twins. If you could have scored the pair of them at once, would the ordeal have been worthwhile? LOL. Sorry, I'm sure you don't want to talk about this, but I'm fascinated. If you want me to stop bustin your balls, lemmie know. Nah a week or two ago, i would have been pissed. Im convinced this is all gonna turn out to be a good thing for me. That chic i gave ya is 2-3 years younger, but when i saw her i was like cuz they look so much alike. If i had scored them both at once? No it would not have been worth it. I went through hell the past few months because of her. A few moments a pleasure for that? No way.

Nah she has neither sorry, But shes evil, manipulative and a chronic liar if those qualities interest you....... Tats and piercings are a deal-buster, brotha. Don't you remember my policies? LOL. And do you have a pic of her? I'd like to see what kind of poon you demand. Shes hot, real hot, ill give her that. That was my mistake........... Ya know what they say, the proof is in the puddin'. Show me the puddin'. I know you've got a pic of her. I dont. I cut up and threw away all her pics. Dont need or want any reminders. Besides, I dont have a scanner. Theres a pic of her on her yahoo profile, but its like 4 years old, so that wouldnt do any good. Sorry.... Darn, heh. Her Yahoo profile eh? I'll take a looksie. PM her ID to me if you don't want to make it public knowledge. Nah no way, shes a nutcase. I know you wouldnt contact her, but im not taking that chance. Ive made enough mistakes, call me paranoid. LOL, I'd e-mail her and be like "Bmr really misses you". LMAO. I understand, though. Any chance of you saving her pic on your hdd and just posting here? Here this is the best i can do, i can give ya the screen name of a chic who looks EXACTLY like her..................atelaphobia425. They could be twins.

Nah she has neither sorry, But shes evil, manipulative and a chronic liar if those qualities interest you....... Tats and piercings are a deal-buster, brotha. Don't you remember my policies? LOL. And do you have a pic of her? I'd like to see what kind of poon you demand. Shes hot, real hot, ill give her that. That was my mistake........... Ya know what they say, the proof is in the puddin'. Show me the puddin'. I know you've got a pic of her. I dont. I cut up and threw away all her pics. Dont need or want any reminders. Besides, I dont have a scanner. Theres a pic of her on her yahoo profile, but its like 4 years old, so that wouldnt do any good. Sorry.... Darn, heh. Her Yahoo profile eh? I'll take a looksie. PM her ID to me if you don't want to make it public knowledge. Nah no way, shes a nutcase. I know you wouldnt contact her, but im not taking that chance. Ive made enough mistakes, call me paranoid.

Where is the choice for the Twins? Thats who i would vote for.........

Nah she has neither sorry, But shes evil, manipulative and a chronic liar if those qualities interest you....... Tats and piercings are a deal-buster, brotha. Don't you remember my policies? LOL. And do you have a pic of her? I'd like to see what kind of poon you demand. Shes hot, real hot, ill give her that. That was my mistake........... Ya know what they say, the proof is in the puddin'. Show me the puddin'. I know you've got a pic of her. I dont. I cut up and threw away all her pics. Dont need or want any reminders. Besides, I dont have a scanner. Theres a pic of her on her yahoo profile, but its like 4 years old, so that wouldnt do any good. Sorry....

Nah she has neither sorry, But shes evil, manipulative and a chronic liar if those qualities interest you....... Tats and piercings are a deal-buster, brotha. Don't you remember my policies? LOL. And do you have a pic of her? I'd like to see what kind of poon you demand. Shes hot, real hot, ill give her that. That was my mistake...........

Nah she has neither sorry, But shes evil, manipulative and a chronic liar if those qualities interest you.......

Nah that b**** has the name of Vanessa. I can hook ya up if you want......

Luckily i live about 30 miles inland, so i should be alright. The freaky thing is it seems the eye is heading right towards us.

Tropical storm claudette, soon to be a hurricane, is heading right for me!!!

I voted for Colon, only because i fully expected him to dominate.

People i said experts. I dont need people to point out the mistakes i have made. Ummm i think i am well aware of those okay? Jesus.. well, i was leading up to a situation that might help, but i guess you don't want it. then i wonder why you were posting here and telling us all of this in the first place. you are the one who is whinning and crying about it. i needed a little more info that is why i asked the last question, b/c that might be where you can save yourself. btw you were the one who mention slander in the first place, in addition i have many yrs of working with lawsuits of one case or another esp dealing with someone who was wronged in the workforce. oh well, i will stop reading this post and yeah good luck. Stop being so sensitive ldf. You have a right to read and respond, and so do i...........and to answer your question yeah she has proof to the threat because she set me up online and got me to halfway admit i said it and also, i admitted to it with my boss. I doubt i am even going to a lawyer. Im not whining and crying, i was trying to find someone who is very knowledgable about these cases. The last thing I need is for someone to tell me what ive done wrong. Ive beat myself up over my wrongs more than anyone else in the world could do, believe me.