If gay people would stop thinking of themselves for a moment and think of society in general, they may see things differently. I dont want to hear about hating, because i hate noone. I think its totally fine to be gay, if you keep it behind closed doors. However, when bringing attention to it, like so many do, you are just disrupting society and the norms of human existence. If you dont see that, youre extemely selfish. In fact, studies have been done, and gay men have VERY low self esteems. The reason behind that is they realize what they are doing isnt "normal". If thats the case, dont flaunt it! If you are in a clubhouse with 24 straight men, the wise thing to do is keep it to yourself.