Everyone says college is supposed to be the best time of your life...and after 4 years of it I thought it was. They should also put the disclaimer on that "Beware of jackasses that will break your heart to become self-absorbed in work and themselves and who are afraid of committment."...or did I miss that pamplet on orientation day??

 

some, not all guys, should definitely never get married

Everyone says college is supposed to be the best time of your life...and after 4 years of it I thought it was. They should also put the disclaimer on that "Beware of jackasses that will break your heart to become self-absorbed in work and themselves and who are afraid of committment."...or did I miss that pamplet on orientation day?? 

 

some, not all guys, should definitely never get married 

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Are you serious?

Everyone says college is supposed to be the best time of your life...and after 4 years of it I thought it was. They should also put the disclaimer on that "Beware of jackasses that will break your heart to become self-absorbed in work and themselves and who are afraid of committment."...or did I miss that pamplet on orientation day?? 

 

some, not all guys, should definitely never get married 

 

People shouldn't get married...period. And how much of a pain in the ass are you?

 

It was me, not you...

Everyone says college is supposed to be the best time of your life...and after 4 years of it I thought it was. They should also put the disclaimer on that "Beware of jackasses that will break your heart to become self-absorbed in work and themselves and who are afraid of committment."...or did I miss that pamplet on orientation day?? 

 

some, not all guys, should definitely never get married 

Live and learn. . .

Live and learn. . .

 

That's it?

 

No other advice?

That's it?

 

No other advice?

Nope, when my college sweetheart and I broke up it was kind of mutual (albeit biased to my side) and you just get over it. You miss 'em less and less and then you put your own life first and then you know you get back to the point of being happy with and by yourself. So, live and learn and move on. . .

That's it?

 

No other advice?

 

 

 

Nope. It is what it is. Holding on to something not meant to be only makes things worse.

Nope, when my college sweetheart and I broke up it was kind of mutual (albeit biased to my side) and you just get over it. You miss 'em less and less and then you put your own life first and then you know you get back to the point of being happy with and by yourself. So, live and learn and move on. . .

 

 

Nope. It is what it is. Holding on to something not meant to be only makes things worse.

 

I think I just recieved a beatdown.

 

I guess I have a lot to learn ladies.

I think I just recieved a beatdown.

 

I guess I have a lot to learn ladies.

 

You got off easy...At least through this media they can only type their responses!!

You got off easy...At least through this media they can only type their responses!! 

 

Well, Soxy lives in a different state so I'm safe there.

 

 

Well, Soxy lives in a different state so I'm safe there.

 

 

Oh, but my family still lives in the 'burbs. I'll be back.

Oh, but my family still lives in the 'burbs. I'll be back.

Oh he's in trouble now.

Oh, but my family still lives in the 'burbs. I'll be back.

 

And I know where he lives..

 

 

Just Live and Learn?? Wow, I thought women were more complex than men. Anyway, sorry to hear FoxySoxgirl, you'll get over it one day and be better for it.

I've lived and learned and I'll definitely get over him...it's just a shame 3 years were wasted. At least now I'm free to move about the country without worrying about anyone dragging me down

I've lived and learned and I'll definitely get over him...it's just a shame 3 years were wasted. At least now I'm free to move about the country without worrying about anyone dragging me down

 

 

Don't consider it a waste. Call it a learning experience. It happens to most at least once. If anything be thankful it was now versus in your late 20's early 30's.

Don't consider it a waste. Call it a learning experience. It happens to most at least once. If anything be thankful it was now versus in your late 20's early 30's.

 

 

Yeah, I think I'm just too bitter to learn anything from it right now. But at least no kids, house, etc. exist to complicate things. At least my new job is in an industry that's predominantly male

Yeah, I think I'm just too bitter to learn anything from it right now. But at least no kids, house, etc. exist to complicate things. At least my new job is in an industry that's predominantly male

 

I wake up everyday saying the same thing!! :banghead

i'm going into college in the fall...

Oh, but my family still lives in the 'burbs. I'll be back.

 

Oh man..

 

I'm sitting by the front door waiting as I type.

And I know where he lives.. 

 

I didn't mention you for a reason...

Oh man..

 

I'm sitting by the front door waiting as I type.

What will you be carrying? A baseball bat or a picnic for two?

What will you be carrying? A baseball bat or a picnic for two? 

 

Picnic for sure.

 

I figure that since I run like Konerko and hit like well Borchard cira 2004.

Yeah, I think I'm just too bitter to learn anything from it right now. But at least no kids, house, etc. exist to complicate things.  At least my new job is in an industry that's predominantly male

 

You're too young to be thinking about marriage anyway. Think of the fun times and go find some more. The rest will work itself out!