Steff

Did you hear me killa...?

I was "Stephanie in her car on I-55". I brought up the Indianapolis article in which Sosa was describing how his bats are made to his specifications (weight, length, etc, etc...) here's a snipit from the article " A corked bat weighs about an ounce or an ounce-and-a-half less than before it was altered. Sosa favors bats that are 34 inches long, have a barrel diameter of 2 inches and weigh 31 ounces. He said in an interview with The Indianapolis Star last summer that when he picks up a bat, he knows instantly whether it meets his custom specifications. ''I know,'' he said. ''I just know.'' Seattle Mariners infielder Jeff Cirillo doesn't believe Sosa's explanation that he used the bat by accident. Before a game in Philadelphia on Wednesday, Cirillo challenged a reporter to look around a dressing room where game-ready bats were set like shining weapons in various lockers. ''Batters know their bats,'' Cirillo said. ''They know their game T-shirts, their socks, their cleats. You are going to know which bat is your game bat. ''If you look at his bat, it was game-ready. He had been preparing. It was like a hunter sharpening his bow. And if I had a corked bat, I would surely know which one it was.'' My end comment was.. how was it a mistake, if he "knows"..? They were up in arms cheering me. Mac said "now I know why we were told to put this one on right away". I was on hold less than 2 minutes. It was pretty cool.

Its okay. Couldnt figure out why you were attacking me. I am sooooo sorry! I'm crawling under the biggest rock right now. Geezus.. talk about open mouth insert foot.

Holy s***! Bmr.. I am so very sorry. You did NOT say that. Social retard clujer did. My apologies. Really.. I am sorry.

I never said it was. It's the gray area I tried to point out to you earlier in this thread. YOU discounted it. YOU said it was her fault. She should have left. But yet here comes a life experience that you were in where you were not removed from the situation. Does that make it your mom's fault? No. Get it?

I know your life is based on your decisions. If you choose to stay in an abusive relationship, youre telling yourself thats what you deserve. Those people are dumbasses. TRUST ME, i know all about abuse. obviously you dont know enough.......some people are not choosing to stay they have no choice but to stay..... years of abuse made them think that way................untill you have walked in those shoes (which i hope you never have to) then dont go pointing the fingers and saying you need to do this or that.......experiencs is part of lifes lessons.......... Ummm i was abused as a kid. THAT is having no choice. I dont care if the guy is 1000 pounds. He hits you more than once, YOU f***ING LEAVE. you cant always leave..............sometimes life doesnt leave that choice up for an option........... No situation is hopeless. You're right. But when you have no money. No transportation. No self esteem. No one to trust. Makes it a wee bit hard. You still try. I KNOW youre not going to argue that, so why in fact, are you??? I'm not. I'm arguing the fact that you say it's the victim's fault. It is NOT! You think they ask to be beat? Did YOU?

I know your life is based on your decisions. If you choose to stay in an abusive relationship, youre telling yourself thats what you deserve. Those people are dumbasses. TRUST ME, i know all about abuse. obviously you dont know enough.......some people are not choosing to stay they have no choice but to stay..... years of abuse made them think that way................untill you have walked in those shoes (which i hope you never have to) then dont go pointing the fingers and saying you need to do this or that.......experiencs is part of lifes lessons.......... Ummm i was abused as a kid. THAT is having no choice. I dont care if the guy is 1000 pounds. He hits you more than once, YOU f***ING LEAVE. NO CHOICE...??? Did your mommy leave Bmr...? uh does that make sense cuz i have no idea what youre talking about. LOL.. you have no idea. Go figure. But I'll go slower for you.. It makes perfect sense.. you said you were abused as a child and had no choice. I asked if your mother left the abuser. You did have a mom, right...? Did she not have a choice to leave? Hmmm maybe thats why the subject pisses me off huh? Well then wait a minute.. you're saying Sosa's wife was a dumbass for staying. Yet you had a mother who stayed? I'm assuming you don't think your mother is a dumbass and the abuse endured was HER fault.. right? Obviously there were circumstances beyond her control that didn't allow her to just walk out, am I close? So why does that make it a "sad" situation for you and your family.. but makes it Sonia's fault she got beat up?

I know your life is based on your decisions. If you choose to stay in an abusive relationship, youre telling yourself thats what you deserve. Those people are dumbasses. TRUST ME, i know all about abuse. obviously you dont know enough.......some people are not choosing to stay they have no choice but to stay..... years of abuse made them think that way................untill you have walked in those shoes (which i hope you never have to) then dont go pointing the fingers and saying you need to do this or that.......experiencs is part of lifes lessons.......... Ummm i was abused as a kid. THAT is having no choice. I dont care if the guy is 1000 pounds. He hits you more than once, YOU f***ING LEAVE. you cant always leave..............sometimes life doesnt leave that choice up for an option........... No situation is hopeless. You're right. But when you have no money. No transportation. No self esteem. No one to trust. Makes it a wee bit hard.

I know your life is based on your decisions. If you choose to stay in an abusive relationship, youre telling yourself thats what you deserve. Those people are dumbasses. TRUST ME, i know all about abuse. Drug abuse doesn't count. And from your statements alone I know for a FACT you don't know s*** about this topic. GO get you therapy on the subject instead of throwing your self guilt on other people. I don't need any. Thankfully I was never a victim. But I did volunteer for 3 years at 2 different shelters and learned first hand what these people (women and MEN) deal with. When I walked in I had your stupid attitude. Until I learned the facts and the trama in their lives. Guilt...? You bet I have guilt. I wish I could help every single person who is beat on. Unfortunately so much of it is never reported. I wish i could help them too. HELP THEM LEAVE. Well.. if they weren't so scared they were going to get KILLED or BEAT again they might tell someone, right? Good grief...

I know your life is based on your decisions. If you choose to stay in an abusive relationship, youre telling yourself thats what you deserve. Those people are dumbasses. TRUST ME, i know all about abuse. obviously you dont know enough.......some people are not choosing to stay they have no choice but to stay..... years of abuse made them think that way................untill you have walked in those shoes (which i hope you never have to) then dont go pointing the fingers and saying you need to do this or that.......experiencs is part of lifes lessons.......... Ummm i was abused as a kid. THAT is having no choice. I dont care if the guy is 1000 pounds. He hits you more than once, YOU f***ING LEAVE. NO CHOICE...??? Did your mommy leave Bmr...? uh does that make sense cuz i have no idea what youre talking about. LOL.. you have no idea. Go figure. But I'll go slower for you.. It makes perfect sense.. you said you were abused as a child and had no choice. I asked if your mother left the abuser. You did have a mom, right...? Did she not have a choice to leave?

I know your life is based on your decisions. If you choose to stay in an abusive relationship, youre telling yourself thats what you deserve. Those people are dumbasses. TRUST ME, i know all about abuse. Drug abuse doesn't count. And from your statements alone I know for a FACT you don't know s*** about this topic. GO get you therapy on the subject instead of throwing your self guilt on other people. I don't need any. Thankfully I was never a victim. But I did volunteer for 3 years at 2 different shelters and learned first hand what these people (women and MEN) deal with. When I walked in I had your stupid attitude. Until I learned the facts and the trama in their lives. Guilt...? You bet I have guilt. I wish I could help every single person who is beat on. Unfortunately so much of it is never reported.

I know your life is based on your decisions. If you choose to stay in an abusive relationship, youre telling yourself thats what you deserve. Those people are dumbasses. TRUST ME, i know all about abuse. obviously you dont know enough.......some people are not choosing to stay they have no choice but to stay..... years of abuse made them think that way................untill you have walked in those shoes (which i hope you never have to) then dont go pointing the fingers and saying you need to do this or that.......experiencs is part of lifes lessons.......... Ummm i was abused as a kid. THAT is having no choice. I dont care if the guy is 1000 pounds. He hits you more than once, YOU f***ING LEAVE. NO CHOICE...??? Did your mommy leave Bmr...?

I know your life is based on your decisions. If you choose to stay in an abusive relationship, youre telling yourself thats what you deserve. Those people are dumbasses. TRUST ME, i know all about abuse. Drug abuse doesn't count. And from your statements alone I know for a FACT you don't know s*** about this topic.

Yes Bmr.. I have issues with people who are BLIND. Just because YOU wouldn't hit a female doesn't mean others wouldn't. And even the strongest females are scared to leave an abuser. Go visit a shelter sometime. Or look at the female next to you when you're out next time. The law of averages says she's been a victim of some sort of DV and NOT told anyone about it. Their fault? I stand up for myself. If other people dont, they hey, its on them. It's obvious you're missing the point.. surprise, surprise. When a 180lb man is bullying a 100lb woman who has small children to think about. Who threatens to harm her and her children if she tells or leaves. The choice to stay to protect those children is very great. Ask your mother her thoughs on this topic. My guess is that it's just your idiotic testosterone clouding your judgement.

Oh get a f***ing clue. Lord, if you people who think the world is just black and white had to live in the grey area for just 5 seconds you'd be amazed. Take a look at the DV stats boys. They don't lie.

Stupid asshole. huh? He is 100 percent right. If he beat her , and cheats and all that, and shes still with him, shes a dumbass. Oh Lord help you if you have a sister or a really, really close female friend. I am wishing bad, bad things on you right now... Steff you seem to have some SERIOUS issues that you made need to address. I have never met another male more into protecting women than me. Sammy Sosa is a piece of s*** for raising a hand to a woman and shes a dumbass for taking it. Its clear cut. It is hard to have sympathy for her when she stays. It's not as if she wouldn't have the financial means to live. My heart breaks for a mother who's stuck because of financial considerations. She clearly isn't. Personally I think she should have dumped him as soon as the rum bottle started towards her. I wouldn't have waitd for it to land. When this happened she was NOT finacially secure.

Stupid asshole. huh? He is 100 percent right. If he beat her , and cheats and all that, and shes still with him, shes a dumbass. Oh Lord help you if you have a sister or a really, really close female friend. I am wishing bad, bad things on you right now... Steff you seem to have some SERIOUS issues that you made need to address. I have never met another male more into protecting women than me. Sammy Sosa is a piece of s*** for raising a hand to a woman and shes a dumbass for taking it. Its clear cut. Yes Bmr.. I have issues with people who are BLIND. Just because YOU wouldn't hit a female doesn't mean others wouldn't. And even the strongest females are scared to leave an abuser. Go visit a shelter sometime. Or look at the female next to you when you're out next time. The law of averages says she's been a victim of some sort of DV and NOT told anyone about it.

It was me!!! Good one to. I brought up the Indianapolis interview. They put me on in less than 2 minutes! The screener was like "woah.. hold on a sec I gotta get you on". It was so funny.

Was anyone listening today at 5:45ish...??

Stupid asshole. huh? He is 100 percent right. If he beat her , and cheats and all that, and shes still with him, shes a dumbass. Oh Lord help you if you have a sister or a really, really close female friend. I am wishing bad, bad things on you right now... If my sister were to get abused by a guy, she wouldn't have to worry about whether or not she should leave him -- because he would be in the ground. Oh really? How about if she didn't tell you about it? How about if she was so ashamed, that she hid it? How about if he took her to another country, no friends or family to talk or confide in, and beat her? How about if he was the ONLY source of support she had? Yeah.. think about those things. 88% of DV cases are HIDDEN from the victim's families. 64% of them end up DEAD. My guess is if you ask around, you already know someone who has been a victim. Maybe even your own sister...

Stupid asshole. huh? He is 100 percent right. If he beat her , and cheats and all that, and shes still with him, shes a dumbass. I'm glad to see there's at least 1 other person on this board with a brain and a pair of balls to go with it. Your poor mother.

Stupid asshole. huh? He is 100 percent right. If he beat her , and cheats and all that, and shes still with him, shes a dumbass. Oh Lord help you if you have a sister or a really, really close female friend. I am wishing bad, bad things on you right now...

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Spiff.. EXCELLENT tip on Chacon! I got 28 points for him Monday. Thanks Oh.. on an unrealted topic.. please don't you and Wikes fight.. He's my bud!!

Ugh! Let it go!!