I'd like to add a thought to this discussion. As you are reading posts thatmay disagree with you, keep in mind that it is very easy to misconstrue someone's meaning because you do not have the benefit of hearing voice level and inflections, look them in the eye or read their body language. In this forum all you have is the typed word and some clickable smilies. You may read a post that makes you mad. I suggest you take the time to consider if you are assuming that the poster is tearing your head off. Stop, consider that you might be doing this and read the post again. I know this usually works for me. And if I'm not sure, I give the poster the benefit of the doubt.