QUOTE (caulfield12 @ Jul 24, 2010 -> 09:47 PM)
Every time you intentionally bring in the "wing man" who is a friend to use her in a manipulative way, it never works.
One can only be so "strategic" in this...if it happens naturally, that's the only time it is really effective, that girls will notice each other and recognize instinctually that another is circling "their" territory and they have to decide whether the fight or flight response is necessary.
As noted, some girls want their guy to stay single, even though they don't really want to date him...it's strange, like that movie My Best Friend's Wedding, even where the guy has a fiance, he still doesn't want another man to be with his friend, even if nothing has ever happened between them romantically.
I've never had much luck with a wing man before either. They always end up looking and acting better than me! But that's not very hard to do it seems!