I believe in all this, one point is being missed, the military is unlike any other work place. There are a few jobs similar, but none quite like life and death while deep in some jungle or a desert. Those that seek to oversimplify the situation, for very good reasons I will add, are doing a disservice to those that serve. Support for gays openly serving starts out very strong for those not in the military, then steadily declines the closer you get to having the enemy shooting at you. At least from the stats I heard last week.
Not certain what is all should mean, but we seem to be painting this into a blacker and whiter issue than what it really is. And y'all know what a liberal I am, so I would hope no one paints me out to be some homophobe.