August 21, 200619 yr First things first, this probably doesn't belong in PHT so MODS move accordingly... My wife and I have been members of Soxtalk for awhile now. It's been the most difficult month of our lives...I feel kind of silly posting about it on a message board but putting things into words has helped me cope so far and I've established relationships with some of you whether it be talking about the Sox, buying/selling tickets, politics or whatever. On July 17th my first son Dominic was born, I thought it was going to be the start of great times but then 3 days later I had to have an emergency appendectomy. Not only did I not get to see my son in his first days but I was laid up for about two weeks doped up on painkillers (luckily I missed a brutal two weeks by the Sox, lol). Well I thought things coudln't get worse than that but just last week my little brother of 21 years passed away, he was in a car crash. He was a Cubs fan, but other than that he was a great person I don't really know why I'm posting this here, it's been an incredibly difficult time for myself and my family and I guess I'm just trying to find anyway possible to cope. When you all think about how depressing or frustrating it might be to watch our Sox play lately just take comfort in that it really is only a game and that feeling will go away. If it is your thing, please pray for me and my family. Thanks Soxtalk.
August 21, 200619 yr Very sorry to hear all that Nick. Congratulations on the birth of your son, and I hope things get better from here.
August 21, 200619 yr Can't even put into words of the sorrow for your loss my friend. We all love ya and are pulling and praying for you big guy. May God bring to you all the comfort that you seek and need during this tragic time. Sharing your grief, tears, love, and hugs with other family members are some of the best things that you can do at this time in your life. We all hope that all goes as smooth and as best as possible for you and your family in the upcoming days.
August 21, 200619 yr So sorry to hear about your brother and your conditions. Congratulations on your son and get well soon.
August 21, 200619 yr My thoughts are with you, Nick. It's terrible to go through what you've been through lately, and all I can say is that things are bound to get better, and just try to get through it by remembering the good times you had with your brother. I'm sure he'd want you to be happy and move forward with your life. Focus on your little guy, and enjoy all the little miracles he's going to provide for you.
August 21, 200619 yr Nick, prayers are definitely with you and your family. Last year was a hard one for our family and the support from many here was amazing and very helpful. Many of us spend a lot of time here, so it's only natural to want to share things - good and bad. Take care and hang in there. Steff
August 21, 200619 yr QUOTE(Queen Prawn @ Aug 21, 2006 -> 09:50 AM) Prayers are out. You're out of prayers?
August 21, 200619 yr Thoughts and prayers are with you. Things will get better for you, just get through these times and enjoy your son because he will grow up far too fast.
August 21, 200619 yr You are in my thoughts, and the hearts of lots of SoxTalkers. I almost lost my kid brother in a terrible car wreck last year (he's still pretty messed up), so I have at least a bit of an idea of what you and your family are going through. It's hardly worth saying that your son is the silver lining and the sunshine that will help through the dark and gray, but I'll say it anyway. Love and cherish each other.
August 22, 200619 yr Sorry to hear that man. Hang in there and things will get better. Here is to better times for you and your family. Have a drink and remember the good times.
August 22, 200619 yr Thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family....I can't imagine how difficult it is to try and do at times like these, but keep your head up and keep the faith, better days are in your future and your brother is watching your family's back in a better place now.
August 23, 200619 yr Nick... know that my prayers are with you and your family. You are so right when you say things like this (the good and the bad) make us realize that baseball is just a game. Take Care bro. Nick... know that my prayers are with you and your family. You are so right when you say things like this (the good and the bad) make us realize that baseball is just a game. Take Care bro.
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