If it really happened, I don't know how you can excuse it. Sleeping with another guys wife, especially with a family involved, is about as low as you can get. You don't (literally) f*** with someone's family. I'd rather see the guy be a PEDs user or something like that.

The reality is that I think this stuff happens all the time behind closed doors. That doesn't make it OK, but I think that it underscores the point that it's separate from baseball. Like some percentage of your favorite players have done stuff like this and since you never found out, it didn't matter to you.

 

If the guy gets on base, I'm content to let his personal problems be his personal problems. He can be an asshole as long as it doesn't affect the team, he'll deal with the consequences of his actions just like everyone else.