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QUOTE (Whitewashed in '05 @ Jul 2, 2011 -> 02:18 PM) Everyone loves to give advice, however since they aren't the ones emotionally invested in it, it's easy for them to say. At the same time, it doesn't make anyone wrong. Chances are if she had something to say to you she would have told you before doing what she did. That alone makes me think it's a mistake to try to approach her trying to get closure. Even if she does talk to you, she mostly likely won't give you anything you're looking for. It's hard, but stop thinking about her. In situations like this its easy to think about the plans you would have had or think back about the good times you had, but that's just going to make it hurt longer. Anytime your mind wanders about her you need to tell yourself to stop and think about something else. Definitely not saying anyone is wrong because I love hearing different viewpoints on everything. Sorry if I made it sound that way. It's great knowing I can talk to many about situations like this. And part of it I think goes back to April when we first met. My Godmother passed away on a Tuesday morning in April and I was such a wreck that day. Couldn't believe I could cry that much but she was the most important and influential person in my life. Honestly trusted her more than anyone else and loved her more than my parents and friends. The one thing she always brought up was when I was going to bring a girl over for her to meet. Never got the chance but I went out that Tuesday night with a few friends just to get some normalcy in my life and ended up meeting this girl through a friend and we just hit it off. I'm sure it was just a coincidence but I was wanting to think that maybe this girl and I were brought together for a reason. Anways I know that was a dumb reason to think maybe this girl and I had a great future, but I thought it none the less.

Is it realistic to say that Lillibridge will have a better homerun to at bat ratio than Dunn? haha

He is right, this team needs to go with the mentatily of "we're coming to get you." It's great to say but to say and actually do are entirely different things. Hopefully they can get that mentality.

I've been getting tons of advice from you guys and friends. Obviously most say if she's going to do that she's not worth it, which is true. Almost everyone says don't even bother talking to her. Saying don't talk to her is the easiest thing to say, but it's also the hardest thing to do. I feel like I need to talk to her to find out what happened to give me some closure on the situation. But I also think there's a good chance I won't be getting the answers I'm looking for, if any answers at all so it's almost not worth it. Haha I don't know. Can't believe I actually want this 3 day weekend to be over. We had talked about plans for the 4th and now they won't be happening.

QUOTE (Balta1701 @ Jun 30, 2011 -> 05:42 PM) Dude kills the Rockies. Somethin' about how they originally traded him away to Florida. Shouldn't have any resentment because he won a world series in Florida!

QUOTE (ChiSox_Sonix @ Jun 30, 2011 -> 09:12 AM) No, it's not at all your fault. And that really sucks you had to find out like that but better now than further down the road. I've never had that exact experience but last summer there's was a girl I'd been hanging out with for about the same amount of time and ended up running into her at a bar with her ex on a night we were supposed to have dinner but she cancelled cuz something came up. So I kinda know how you feel. Good for you to take the high road on that. It might not be my fault but I'm just so embarrassed about it. Honestly haven't felt like this since middle school. Just feel like such a fool. Can't help it that I thought this one could have a good future with me.

Thanks for the post. I also kept it really civil because I figured there was nothing I could do. And it's not the guy's fault at all. It's my fault for starting to be too clingly and wanting something serious, and her fault for not telling me how she really felt. I truly believe I'd be the best guy for her, but I also now think that I'm not the most compatible guy for her. All I did was tell this other guy that she's an amazing girl, and I wish the best for him, and don't make my mistakes.

So I've been seeing this girl for like a month and a half. Her birthday was 2 weeks ago so I made sure to make it special. But since then things had seemed sort of weird and I could tell something was wrong. I didn't help my cause trying to figure it out and kind of annoying her. But tonight I was riding my bike around since it was a beautiful night out. She told me I could stop by her appartment any time I wanted. I wanted a drink of water since I was thirsty. She's outside the door so I go to talk to her and she's obviously surprised to see me. Then out walks another guy that's half dressed. So to state the obvious she's seeing someone else. She had a phone call and answered it so I started chatting with this guy, they had been seeing each other for about a week now. He had no idea who I was. So I'm asking everyone has anyone ever walked in on another guy like that before? Can't lie, it hurts, but I thought it'd hurt worse than this. I guess I just realize she's somewhat fake and I can do better.

QUOTE (Steve9347 @ Jun 23, 2011 -> 07:44 PM) Did someone release a draft class file? I have it on ps3. They've gone to at least the class of 2013. That's how far I've made it to.

QUOTE (SoxFanForever @ Jun 23, 2011 -> 07:42 PM) No dice lol ironically I drafted Burks on my 2k11 franchise.

Please draft Leonard Utah!

Dang I was hoping Walker would fall to Utah. Figured it wouldn't happen.

QUOTE (Steve9347 @ Jun 21, 2011 -> 11:04 AM) 2003 was quite the fail. Carl Everett was such a monster for Texas that 1st half, we got him right before the All-Star Game and he played in front of the Comiskey faithful. That was one hell of a f***ing team that finished 2nd place. But that outfield defense of Lee, Everett, and Ordonez was horrible especially with having Everett play center field. None the less I think the Sox scored more runs, gave up less, higher BA, lower ERA than Minnesota, but still ended up losing the division to them. I also want to say they had a cupcake interleague schedule and I was beyond mad about that lol.

QUOTE (Balta1701 @ Jun 19, 2011 -> 05:24 PM) Hell, the team hasn't even retired his #. And Jermaine Dye did a pretty good job with it getting the World Series MVP and all.

2 time all-star, 6 gold gloves. He had a great career but I just don't see how he can be a Hall of Famer. He's south of 300 homers and 2000 hits even. One of my favorite players ever so he'll be a Hall of Famer to me, but not a Cooperstown Hall of Famer.

that was scary

QUOTE (BigEdWalsh @ Jun 17, 2011 -> 10:33 PM) Hey, 19 more posts and I'll have 3,333. Get it tonigth!

QUOTE (Balta1701 @ Jun 15, 2011 -> 08:22 PM) Fwiw I don't mind if Pierre bunts. At least the runner moves up if he doesn't pop the bunt up. lol assuming he can get it down. Normally I would assume that, but I would also assume he'd be able to catch fly balls routinely.

Can Rusty Greer be a bench coach? He used to love that guy.

QUOTE (fathom @ Jun 15, 2011 -> 02:47 PM) Can we trade for Jhonny Peralta? Yes! haha

Between Jake Peavy and Juan Pierre, we have the J.P. initials well covered in talks.

QUOTE (IamtheHBOMB @ Jun 12, 2011 -> 10:53 PM) Uh, dead at the age of 27? Maybe Scottie's career would've been dead at the age of 27???? Terrible thing for me to say!

QUOTE (Steve9347 @ Jun 12, 2011 -> 10:15 PM) I made a wallpaper. lol this is awesome

My sister is a: Packers fan---Champion. Mavericks fan---Chamption. White Sox fan---We can only hope!

lol if I was Cuban I'd tell Stern to F off while receiving the trophy. Cannot stand that guy and Cuban has good reason to say something to him haha.