May 30, 200619 yr Well, my Grandmother passed away last night, she was 94 and it was expected but that doesn't really seem to make me feel any better. I found out this morning at about 2 AM, I havn't slept since and probably won't be anytime soon. No matter how much you prepare yourself for these things, when it finally happens it's hard to not let it adversely affect you.
May 30, 200619 yr QUOTE(Kalapse @ May 29, 2006 -> 07:44 PM) Well, my Grandmother passed away last night, she was 94 and it was expected but that doesn't really seem to make me feel any better. I found out this morning at about 2 AM, I havn't slept since and probably won't be anytime soon. No matter how much you prepare yourself for these things, when it finally happens it's hard to not let it adversely affect you. Sorry to hear that man.
May 30, 200619 yr QUOTE(Kalapse @ May 29, 2006 -> 08:44 PM) Well, my Grandmother passed away last night, she was 94 and it was expected but that doesn't really seem to make me feel any better. I found out this morning at about 2 AM, I havn't slept since and probably won't be anytime soon. No matter how much you prepare yourself for these things, when it finally happens it's hard to not let it adversely affect you. Condolences to you and your family Kalapse.
May 30, 200619 yr QUOTE(Kalapse @ May 29, 2006 -> 07:44 PM) Well, my Grandmother passed away last night, she was 94 and it was expected but that doesn't really seem to make me feel any better. I found out this morning at about 2 AM, I havn't slept since and probably won't be anytime soon. No matter how much you prepare yourself for these things, when it finally happens it's hard to not let it adversely affect you. So sorry to hear that Kalapse.
May 30, 200619 yr I'm very sorry to hear about that Kalapse. I hope you and your family find some solace together.
May 30, 200619 yr Sorry to hear that Kalapse. Imagine all she saw in her lifetime. The birth of TV, too many wars, computers, everyone having automobiles, and so much more. It sounds like you were close, what was she like?
May 30, 200619 yr QUOTE(Kalapse @ May 29, 2006 -> 05:44 PM) Well, my Grandmother passed away last night, she was 94 and it was expected but that doesn't really seem to make me feel any better. I found out this morning at about 2 AM, I havn't slept since and probably won't be anytime soon. No matter how much you prepare yourself for these things, when it finally happens it's hard to not let it adversely affect you. Hey Kalapse Really sorry to hear about that. I know nothing I can say can make things better, but just know we are all pulling for you and wishing you and your family the best during this grieving period.
May 30, 200619 yr Didn't see this. Sorry to hear Kalapse. My condolences go out to you and your family.
May 30, 200619 yr Condolances and warm thoughts go out to you and your family. 94 years is a darn good run. I bet she was a great woman with a couple of lifetimes worth of things to pass on.
May 30, 200619 yr Even when you know that they are getting close to the end of life its still hard. I am sorry for your loss.
May 30, 200619 yr It’s never easy to let go of someone even if you know that their time has almost come to an end. Condolences to Kalapse and the family.
May 30, 200619 yr Kalapse You have my deepest sympathy's, believe me the sadness will fade while the memories will remain. Take it easy mate.
May 30, 200619 yr sorry Kalapse. All I can say is when a person lives a long life of 94 years, it should not really be a time of mourning, but rather a celebration of life. Your grandmother must have been an amazing woman to live that long. Keep the memories strong.
May 31, 200619 yr 94 years old and she never lived through a Cubs World Series. I hope you have a quick recovery from this loss, it is never easy to handle. Thoughts are with you.
May 31, 200619 yr Author I'd just like to thank everyone for their kind words and wishes. We've been pretty busy over the past few days getting everything squared away and I've really been able to reflect upon this event. She really was a good woman, not exactly the sweet old grandma type, more of a crazy old Italian woman who was incredibly fun to be around. Her mind was sturdy right up through the final years of her life which was remarkable in its own right. She was at peace with her impendig death right up through her final days which did help ease the pain of losing her and I do feel a whole hell of a lot better than I did yesterday. Surprisingly most of my family has taken it pretty well, I think a lot of them had come to grips with inevitable. These past few days have been about reflection mostly and I feel I have learned and grown stronger from the experience. Also, I do feel I am back to my same smartass self so that's a positive.
Join the conversation
You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.