OK friends, I need your help.

Tommorrow me and my girlfriend will be together for a month and she is the best thing that has ever happend to me, she means the world to me. We were friends for about 6 years before dating so we really know a lot about eachother... but I need your help, I dont no what to do for our one month. I want to do/ get her something nice, but not be to over the top with it and give her the wrong impression since we have only been together for a month. I have been thinking, and thinking about what I should do, but I really havent thought of anything that I like. I am sure no matter what I do for her she will love it since it is from me, but I just want some ideas of what you guys did for your and your girlfriends one month.

 

Any help/ ideas would be very helpful

 

Thanks

Flowers and a nice card. And not roses. A nice spring mix.

Take her to a Sox game!

 

Na, a month is special. But you are right, I wouldn't go over the top. How about a Yanke candle or something that invloves her intrests.

 

It sucks, I've been married 7 years and it gets harder and harder to come up with gift ideas. She likes scrapbooking (well she's got all the stuff, she does't really do it) and reading. THAT IS IT. I never know what to get her.

 

Good luck, just don't do the flower thingy, Flowers are so overrated. Just my opinion.

Just go on a nice date and maybe give her a (not too sappy) card.

Don't over-do the month thing................because you're setting a precedent.............

Good luck, just don't do the flower thingy, Flowers are so overrated. Just my opinion.

 

 

 

From a man... <_>

One month huh? If you go too overboard she will be scared away.

Yeah my six year annivesary is coming up this weekend... maybe I should get her a card?

Yeah my six year annivesary is coming up this weekend... maybe I should get her a card?

you know what's classy print one of those cards that you can make on your computer...that will show her you care

Nothing. One month is not that long. Just mention it and tell her you've really enjoyed it, but that's enough. Most guys won't even do that. Anything more might freak her out. Be careful that you are not looking at it as a six years plus one month anniversary, cuz it's not. Didn't mean to be buzz kill, but I'll tell ya like it is every time.

Nothing. One month is not that long. Just mention it and tell her you've really enjoyed it, but that's enough. Most guys won't even do that. Anything more might freak her out. Be careful that you are not looking at it as a six years plus one month anniversary, cuz it's not. Didn't mean to be buzz kill, but I'll tell ya like it is every time.

 

 

 

They've known eachother for 6 years already so they have a history. If this was brand new I'd definitely agree with ya.

Nothing. One month is not that long. Just mention it and tell her you've really enjoyed it, but that's enough. Most guys won't even do that. Anything more might freak her out. Be careful that you are not looking at it as a six years plus one month anniversary, cuz it's not. Didn't mean to be buzz kill, but I'll tell ya like it is every time.

 

 

Thanks a lot... thats the responce I wanted, I like when people tell me how it is. I want to do something because she does mean a lot to me, but like you and other people have said, it is only a month. I was thinking just go to dinner and a movie. And just tell her how much I have enjoyed the last month... nothing too special, but just to let her know that I do really care about her

 

They've known eachother for 6 years already so they have a history. If this was brand new I'd definitely agree with ya.

You have a good point Steff, we have known eachother for a while. I am thinking jsut keeping it simple, dinner and a movie... Is that something you would agree on, or would you still suggest the flowers?

you know what's classy print one of those cards that you can make on your computer...that will show her you care

 

I choo-choo-choose you!

You have a good point Steff, we have known eachother for a while. I am thinking jsut keeping it simple, dinner and a movie... Is that something you would agree on, or would you still suggest the flowers?

 

 

 

 

 

I'm suggesting a $10 wildflower arrangement from Jewel. Not anything delivered and all that jazz. Dinner and a movie is something I assume you do as part of your relationship so just a little something extra to say "hey.. it's cool were more than friends now". I wouldn't even get a card.

I'd say flowers and a nice dinner. Flowers are never overrated. But don't get roses. Try carnations.

 

Just my 2 cents.

I'd say dinner and don't even mention that it's been a month. Let he do it and say how it seems like just a few weeks and you can't believe you're not sick of her yet.

I choo-choo-choose you!

 

You bent my wookie.

Keep it as low-keyed as possible. As mentioned dinner and maybe a flower or two.

 

I mentioned to Brian that on 7/30 or 7/31, it was 6 years since our first date. Only reason I remembered is that a good friend on mine has a birthday on 7/30 lol.

1 month shouldnt even be an anniversary.

You bent my wookie.

These rubber pants are hot.

just make sure to do whatever steff says,

just make sure to do whatever steff says,

You know what, next Sox fest I'm going to get Steff a real security guard costume

You know what, next Sox fest I'm going to get Steff a real security guard costume

 

 

 

LMAO.. it had almost been a full month.

LMAO.. it had almost been a full month.

it'll be the last illegal soxfest for this kid

it'll be the last illegal soxfest for this kid

 

The end of an era.

I'd say flowers and a nice dinner. Flowers are never overrated. But don't get roses. Try carnations.

 

Just my 2 cents.

You should always take your advice from a guy named Spawn.