January 20, 201511 yr Author QUOTE (Rowand44 @ Jan 19, 2015 -> 07:37 PM) Ya, if a girl cheats once, she'll most likely cheat again. It's funny though as I recently had to deal with a semi similar situation at my club. There's a girl I work with who I do really like but have made myself stay away from because she has a kid(she is single though). Her and I have become very good friends though so I kind of get dragged into her drama which there's been a lot of. Anywho, her dumbass started sleeping with a married man who is a member at our club. Well to no one's surprise, that s*** blew up in her face and she almost lost her job because of it. Who knew working at a gym would be like a Soap Opera? I don't necessarily believe she'll most likely cheat, but that she's capable of cheating. That creates immediate trust issues in a relationship. They can be resolved too, and to cover up cheating you almost have to think like a criminal so as to cover your tracks.
January 20, 201511 yr QUOTE (witesoxfan @ Jan 20, 2015 -> 09:46 AM) I don't necessarily believe she'll most likely cheat, but that she's capable of cheating. That creates immediate trust issues in a relationship. They can be resolved too, and to cover up cheating you almost have to think like a criminal so as to cover your tracks. Everyone is capable of cheating, we're human, and when it comes to sex, our entire species is very primal by nature. It's a flaw feature built into all of us to assure our survival. The being said, what we have over many other forms of life is the ability to think and reason, and therefore CHOOSE to NOT listen to those urges/thoughts/feelings due to the rules we've accepted as a civilized society. Just because a person cheated in the past doesn't mean they'll cheat again in the future, or do so any easier than a person that's never cheated before. My personal opinion on the subject is this would be inviting a LOT of drama into your life, and nobody wants the kind of drama around them. Edited January 20, 201511 yr by Y2HH
January 20, 201511 yr So, a cheating divorcee with 2 kids? Run away! Run away! Abort! Abort! Too many other, better, fish in the sea for that. You don't want/need/deserve all that baggage. You're just inviting trouble to your life with that set up.
January 20, 201511 yr QUOTE (Brian @ Jan 20, 2015 -> 10:15 AM) Thank you all for your lack of help. Ha How about you just bone her and be done with it...
January 20, 201511 yr QUOTE (iamshack @ Jan 20, 2015 -> 12:17 PM) How about you just bone her and be done with it... This was gonna be my advice. Go ahead and have some fun, just don't get involved with anything serious cause she may be cray-cray
January 20, 201511 yr QUOTE (LittleHurt05 @ Jan 20, 2015 -> 12:21 PM) This was gonna be my advice. Go ahead and have some fun, just don't get involved with anything serious cause she may be cray-cray Yea, I'm gonna go ahead and disagree with you here. You don't stick your dick in drama, and don't stick your dick in cray, there are ALWAYS better options. IF something out of the ordinary happens and you impregnate Miss Drama or Miss Cray, you'll get to spend the rest of your life wishing for that 2-20 minutes back.
January 20, 201511 yr QUOTE (Y2HH @ Jan 20, 2015 -> 10:31 AM) Yea, I'm gonna go ahead and disagree with you here. You don't stick your dick in drama, and don't stick your dick in cray, there are ALWAYS better options. IF something out of the ordinary happens and you impregnate Miss Drama or Miss Cray, you'll get to spend the rest of your life wishing for that 2-20 minutes back. Well he didn't seem to like that advice.
January 20, 201511 yr QUOTE (Brian @ Jan 20, 2015 -> 12:15 PM) Thank you all for your lack of help. Ha i think you want us to tell you to go for it, and you know that its a messed up situation and has a good chance in you ending up messed up because of it. I would say stay away until the dust settles with everything she has going on, if you get tangled up in that is could go to FUBAR pretty quickly
January 20, 201511 yr Yeah Brian you have to run from that one dude. That will certainly not be a happily ever after situation for you.
January 20, 201511 yr QUOTE (pettie4sox @ Jan 20, 2015 -> 01:40 PM) Brian, do you like Asian women? I have nothing against them.mnever been with one. You're all probably wrong.
January 20, 201511 yr QUOTE (Brian @ Jan 20, 2015 -> 03:22 PM) I have nothing against them.mnever been with one. You're all probably wrong. What kind of girls do you like? There are a ton of single women at my job. It's like an all you can eat buffet.
January 20, 201511 yr QUOTE (pettie4sox @ Jan 20, 2015 -> 03:30 PM) What kind of girls do you like? There are a ton of single women at my job. It's like an all you can eat buffet. It sounds a bit more like a Panda Express.
January 20, 201511 yr QUOTE (gatnom @ Jan 20, 2015 -> 03:45 PM) It sounds a bit more like a Panda Express. This is wrong...but its absolute gold of a post.
January 20, 201511 yr Brian you into the more heftier women? I have plenty of those at my job if you are interested I could hook you up.
January 20, 201511 yr Author QUOTE (shipps @ Jan 20, 2015 -> 03:50 PM) Brian you into the more heftier women? I have plenty of those at my job if you are interested I could hook you up. If you were a rancher or a zookeeper, this post would be really funny.
January 20, 201511 yr I work for big pharma so all the women here are really intelligent and probably intimidate the crap out of men.
January 20, 201511 yr QUOTE (pettie4sox @ Jan 20, 2015 -> 03:54 PM) I work for big pharma so all the women here are really intelligent and probably intimidate the crap out of men. In Chicago? Takeda, Abbot, Abbvie, Astellas?
January 21, 201511 yr Unless you know Katy Perry, I'm not I retested in set ups. I know I'm a catch though. Thanks
January 21, 201511 yr QUOTE (Brian @ Jan 20, 2015 -> 06:23 PM) Unless you know Katy Perry, I'm not I retested in set ups. I know I'm a catch though. Thanks I know women that look like Katy Perry...
January 21, 201511 yr QUOTE (raBBit @ Jan 20, 2015 -> 06:54 PM) "Hey this guy I know on the internet is a really nice guy..." No different than trolling through plenty of fish or okcupid.
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