February 3, 201511 yr QUOTE (Brian @ Feb 3, 2015 -> 05:42 AM) Sooooo, I've gone out a few times with the girl I previously described, and I just don't think I can date her, at least now. I like her but I keep thinking about how she cheated on her husband and that he may not be as bad of a guy as she says he is. And the fact she so carelessly did with my friend. It's weird because she didn't cheat on me but like some of you said, that possibility is there, and after being cheated on in the past, is not something I want to risk again right now. I almost wish she never ever told me but it was probably better she did. Geez, I'm a mess with relationships. Good decision. Damaged goods. On to the next one.
February 3, 201511 yr QUOTE (raBBit @ Feb 2, 2015 -> 09:15 PM) There's a difference. If I got hitched to my girl now in the next few years the majority of girls I have been with have been of the teenage variety. That's not really living a full experience. I think it's just safe for guys to have fun and establish their careers in their early to mid twenties and worry about the someone you're referring to later on. I mean by all means go out and have fun while you can. I'm just saying I don't think there's a bucket list of women to date before you get married. Unless you're Leo DiCaprio dating and banging 4 different women a week, you'll never meet enough women to sample the entire menu.
February 3, 201511 yr QUOTE (Rowand44 @ Feb 3, 2015 -> 09:21 AM) You two are adorable. I cant wait until you have girl trouble. "I DRANK AND I TOLD HER STUFF" "so what did she say to you? "YOU ARE WASTED GO AWAY"
February 3, 201511 yr Author god, I love the "being too drunk and trying to say something cute and having it backfire on you."
February 3, 201511 yr QUOTE (KyYlE23 @ Feb 3, 2015 -> 10:12 AM) I cant wait until you have girl trouble. "I DRANK AND I TOLD HER STUFF" "so what did she say to you? "YOU ARE WASTED GO AWAY" You just described my whole life in 3 lines. Edited February 3, 201511 yr by Rowand44
February 3, 201511 yr QUOTE (Brian @ Feb 3, 2015 -> 05:42 AM) Sooooo, I've gone out a few times with the girl I previously described, and I just don't think I can date her, at least now. I like her but I keep thinking about how she cheated on her husband and that he may not be as bad of a guy as she says he is. And the fact she so carelessly did with my friend. It's weird because she didn't cheat on me but like some of you said, that possibility is there, and after being cheated on in the past, is not something I want to risk again right now. I almost wish she never ever told me but it was probably better she did. Geez, I'm a mess with relationships. Trust is the foundation of any real relationship.
February 3, 201511 yr QUOTE (witesoxfan @ Feb 3, 2015 -> 10:14 AM) god, I love the "being too drunk and trying to say something cute and having it backfire on you." "You are so good at this you could be a whore."
February 3, 201511 yr QUOTE (southsider2k5 @ Feb 3, 2015 -> 10:29 AM) Trust is the foundation of any real relationship. Now he is gonna want to hug you too
February 3, 201511 yr Author QUOTE (southsider2k5 @ Feb 3, 2015 -> 10:30 AM) "You are so good at this you could be a whore." Mine haven't been quite like that. With my current girlfriend, I said "you do such a good job cleaning around here, why don't you just do it all the time?"
February 3, 201511 yr QUOTE (witesoxfan @ Feb 3, 2015 -> 10:34 AM) Mine haven't been quite like that. With my current girlfriend, I said "you do such a good job cleaning around here, why don't you just do it all the time?" Ok, that's just awesome.
February 3, 201511 yr QUOTE (witesoxfan @ Feb 3, 2015 -> 10:34 AM) Mine haven't been quite like that. With my current girlfriend, I said "you do such a good job cleaning around here, why don't you just do it all the time?" You didnt tell us you just recently became single
February 3, 201511 yr QUOTE (KyYlE23 @ Feb 3, 2015 -> 10:36 AM) You didnt tell us you just recently became single *Cue the wite pic with the 99.999% and then "single" on it.*
February 3, 201511 yr Author We actually just recently celebrated our 10 month anniversary and we just did the hibbity-dibbity last night. So there.
February 3, 201511 yr Author QUOTE (raBBit @ Feb 3, 2015 -> 12:11 PM) What day is considered the first day of your relationship? The day I asked her to be my girlfriend, 3/26/14. This is the longest relationship she's been in, but as the thread starter (and at the time, boy in mourning ) it's not mine, so these monthly anniversaries mean a lot more to her than they do me. In a new relationship, the 3 big milestones to me are 1 month, 6 months, and 1 year and then every year after that.
February 3, 201511 yr Author QUOTE (raBBit @ Feb 3, 2015 -> 12:24 PM) Yeah I was just wondering because my girl asked me how long I think we've been together and I really couldn't put a date to it. We have been friends since I was like 15 and have had a few different periods where we were going out since then. I just told her I remember getting whiskey dick on St. Pattys Day and she didn't particularly like that answer. LOL
February 4, 201511 yr QUOTE (witesoxfan @ Feb 3, 2015 -> 12:06 PM) we just did the hibbity-dibbity last night. There was ding-ding to hoohah hullabaloo?
February 5, 201511 yr So the one year wedding anniversary is in April and I'm trying to get out ahead of this thing. Did some internet research and it appears that there are two types of gifts for year 1...the traditional "paper" gift or the modern "clocks" gift. Did you guys follow these rules or did you just figure out your own gift?
February 5, 201511 yr QUOTE (iamshack @ Feb 4, 2015 -> 09:56 PM) So the one year wedding anniversary is in April and I'm trying to get out ahead of this thing. Did some internet research and it appears that there are two types of gifts for year 1...the traditional "paper" gift or the modern "clocks" gift. Did you guys follow these rules or did you just figure out your own gift? Dont you just cut a hole in a box?
February 5, 201511 yr QUOTE (iamshack @ Feb 4, 2015 -> 09:56 PM) So the one year wedding anniversary is in April and I'm trying to get out ahead of this thing. Did some internet research and it appears that there are two types of gifts for year 1...the traditional "paper" gift or the modern "clocks" gift. Did you guys follow these rules or did you just figure out your own gift? We're past 3 now and have never followed those suggestions, so I would say don't worry about it.
February 5, 201511 yr QUOTE (iamshack @ Feb 4, 2015 -> 10:56 PM) So the one year wedding anniversary is in April and I'm trying to get out ahead of this thing. Did some internet research and it appears that there are two types of gifts for year 1...the traditional "paper" gift or the modern "clocks" gift. Did you guys follow these rules or did you just figure out your own gift? We've never done the traditional gifts. We usually won't exchange anything, but go out for a nice meal or take a weekend trip.
February 5, 201511 yr QUOTE (iamshack @ Feb 4, 2015 -> 09:56 PM) So the one year wedding anniversary is in April and I'm trying to get out ahead of this thing. Did some internet research and it appears that there are two types of gifts for year 1...the traditional "paper" gift or the modern "clocks" gift. Did you guys follow these rules or did you just figure out your own gift? Figure out your own gift. That stuff is a waste of time.
February 5, 201511 yr My first anniversary gift to my wife happened to be paper (concert tickets), but I don't think I was even aware of that 'tradition' at the time.
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