QUOTE (IChaseBlackWood @ Sep 5, 2010 -> 09:15 PM)
When I found out that my kids' dad knocked up the daycare teacher he cheated on me with, it hurt to the core. Then I found out they were getting married and I was pissed ..BUT then I remembered that he was a POS and no good for me anyway and that I could do better! I left him for a reason ..Now she's miserable and I love her to pieces ..After all the horrible things I said about her, how ugly I thought she was, the nasty things I wished upon her ..I honestly feel so bad for her now. I know what she's living with and no woman should ever have to endure what I went/she goes through ..Maybe someday she'll come to her senses ..one can only hope!
Ouch. Sometimes I think people just like to be in a position of being hurt all the time. Maybe it's because they think they're not good enough to be treated great, or maybe because it's all they know, or they think they can change the other person eventually. Whatever the reason is it seems like it never ends up working for them.