What about all those into auto eroticism, S&M, coming close to strangulation without any marks on the body?
Those are all sick and inhuman?
Who is to define norms in those literally grey areas according to pop culture novelists?
30-35% of the country still believes gay sex is sick and inhuman and a perversion, etc.
There's certainly more distancing from that area of sexuality in the typical big league clubhouse...and there are certainly numerous bullying and worse incidents to back that up, from Vizquel and the Blackhawks.