Whether you agree with this or not, or what happened, if you want this to "go away", then stop posting. Read it, decide for yourself, PM people if you have that big of a disagreement, but please, I think it's time to just simply let this go by the wayside. We can rehash this forever, and the more it's at the top of the page, the more people get sucked in.
I think a lot of people have a lot of regrets, or, valiant reasons to do what they did. But there's a lot of emotion, and it would be nice to move on so that the tension can go away.
I've said my piece, let's hope it ends here.