From what I have read, the owners have brought some absolutely ridiculous and unrealistic offers to the table so far, they haven't been very genuine in their attempts. It's hard to place "fault" for me because the CBA is up, it needs to be renegotiated in good faith from both sides. However, im sure the players have brought some ridiculous scenarios to the table as well.
It just needs to be negotiated, and right now there isn't a lot of that happening