QUOTE (Thunderbolt @ Sep 21, 2009 -> 01:52 PM)
I got "surprise gayed" by one of my college friends recently. It’s a weird feeling, because it makes you reexamine every conversation you ever had with the guy. I don’t think I’ve ever said anything homophobic to him, but I was pretty open about talking to him about getting girls, essentially, I talked to him like a straight guy would talk to another straight guy. I know this shouldn’t bother me, because I never even suspected he was gay, but I do wonder if I ever seemed like an asshole in any of our conversations.
That happened to me with a co-worker. One day we were talking about going to the Bulls game and he said, "hey, you do know I'm gay?
me "no, I didn't know, kiss me; just kidding".
him "Does this mean we aren't going to the Bulls game?"
me" no, it means we're going to have a hard time after the game finding a bar that we'll both find some action" :-)
I'd be lying if I said it didn't change our friendship.