My feelings...
It is wrong to bash anybody, no matter the reason. Do I think beastly should be banned? I'd have to see what he wrote, but it was definately a lack of good judgement on beastly's part. By now Beastly should know what to write and what not to on this board, considering he has been reprimanded so often.
As for heather, I don't know her, or how she acted, but I will say it is wrong to judge someone by one occasion at a party (especially if alcohol was involved, which I presume it was because it was a tailgate party).
No sense wasting bandwidth, looks like everyone got a good 5 pages of fun out of it.