She actually didn't cheat on me. Just lied and misled me.

 

I meant with your co-worker...

The Blackhawks, the Bulls, soccer (like she plays soccer), music... that's really it haha, I already got her a Blackhawks Stanley Cup shirt that she wanted, too

 

I would suggest a minor league baseball game or Chicago Fire match.

 

Maybe watch the women's World Cup matches with her this week...even if you think soccer on t.v. is boring.

 

Are there any indie concerts with groups she likes that aren't too expensively ticketed?

 

Would she like the Art Institute, Shedd Aquarium or zoo? Six Flags, although that can get expensive....if not, go karts and mini golf is always fun as a back-up.

 

Inside Out if she likes animated movies.

 

Sky diving? Rock climbing/hiking?

 

Dinner cruise? These last two are probably too expensive...unless you can find discounts.

 

 

Couple months of dating. Is there a limit your trying to spend? Flowers? A favorite CD? Favorite player t shirt of the Bulls?

Yeah, I probably won't spend more than $50-$75.

 

I would suggest a minor league baseball game or Chicago Fire match.

 

Maybe watch the women's World Cup matches with her this week...even if you think soccer on t.v. is boring.

Are there any indie concerts with groups she likes that aren't too expensively ticketed?

 

Would she like the Art Institute, Shedd Aquarium or zoo? Six Flags, although that can get expensive....if not, go karts and mini golf is always fun as a back-up.

Inside Out if she likes animated movies.

 

Sky diving? Rock climbing/hiking?

 

Dinner cruise? These last two are probably too expensive...unless you can find discounts.

The bolded are both good suggestions, in fact, we planned on the zoo or the Art Institute. Forgot to mention that she likes art.

Thanks to everyone for your suggestions

She actually didn't cheat on me. Just lied and misled me.

Sucks...so turns out she was a dude afterall and didn't tell you

 

Too soon?

Sucks...so turns out she was a dude afterall and didn't tell you

 

Too soon?

 

Nah. Her name is Caitlyn. No way.....wait...

Yeah...so this blew up in my face as you guys predicted. She pretty much misled me, lied to me, and kinda used me.

 

I was blinded by bewbs.

Like, I mean, were the bewbs worth it?

 

PS: That sucks. Sorry man. I've had issues with my wife lying/cheating. It's not fun. Long recovery process.

Edited June 22, 201510 yr by HuskyCaucasian

Nah. Her name is Caitlyn. No way.....wait...

About to try and get back in the game with a girl from work. We shall see how this goes.

About to try and get back in the game with a girl from work. We shall see how this goes.

Be careful about dipping your pen in the company ink.

I forgot if I told you the update on my friend who cheats on his wife. He's the late 30s guy who was "f***ing" that 24 year old waitress from Hooters.

 

Well he finally got sloppy and got caught by his wife. I never ever thought he would get caught. I guess it does prove the old adage that if you cheat you will get caught. He ended up getting some free tickets to a baseball game and gave them to his 22 year old mistress. She gave them to four people she knew. Well the 4 people went to the game and said "How did we get these tickets?" One of the people said, "Shelly's boyfriend, XX XX, got the tickets." One of the people said, "XX is he the guy who works at Sprint? My wife knows HIS WIFE." So this p**** goes home and tells his wife and she calls my friend's wife and says, "Your husband is cheating on you." She calls her husband who is in New Orleans on a weekend getaway with his mistress and says, "I know all about you cheating on me. Don't deny it."

 

My friend's wife did not ask for a divorce. They are still together. They have 2 kids, 6 and 4.

 

My question is: If you cheat is it inevitable you get caught? I never thought he'd get caught. He was taking girls on dates in the town he lives in and still never got caught til the baseball game.

Be careful about dipping your pen in the company ink.

 

Long story, but she's a grad student who isn't permanent.

Saw on Facebook that an ex of mine got engaged. Haven't talked to her in 2 years but it's natural to feel weird about it, isn't it? Not my first ex to get engaged.

Starting to feel like a Good Luck Chuck. Ha

 

My trainwreck from a couple of months ago is just that and more. Haven't talked to her in awhile but a mutual friend said she started dating a guy and is cheating on him with a bartender. I won't say this often, but you guys were right. So glad to be away from her.

 

But she was so hot...

Edited August 4, 201510 yr by Brian

Saw on Facebook that an ex of mine got engaged. Haven't talked to her in 2 years but it's natural to feel weird about it, isn't it? Not my first ex to get engaged.

Starting to feel like a Good Luck Chuck. Ha

 

My trainwreck from a couple of months ago is just that and more. Haven't talked to her in awhile but a mutual friend said she started dating a guy and is cheating on him with a bartender. I won't say this often, but you guys were right. So glad to be away from her.

 

But she was so hot...

 

When you find the girl you are going to spend the rest of your life with none of your exes will mean s*** to you. You will finally look back and be thankful you didnt wind up with those other girls and couldnt care less about how they are doing.

 

Thats at least been my experience.

I forgot if I told you the update on my friend who cheats on his wife. He's the late 30s guy who was "f***ing" that 24 year old waitress from Hooters.

 

Well he finally got sloppy and got caught by his wife. I never ever thought he would get caught. I guess it does prove the old adage that if you cheat you will get caught. He ended up getting some free tickets to a baseball game and gave them to his 22 year old mistress. She gave them to four people she knew. Well the 4 people went to the game and said "How did we get these tickets?" One of the people said, "Shelly's boyfriend, XX XX, got the tickets." One of the people said, "XX is he the guy who works at Sprint? My wife knows HIS WIFE." So this p**** goes home and tells his wife and she calls my friend's wife and says, "Your husband is cheating on you." She calls her husband who is in New Orleans on a weekend getaway with his mistress and says, "I know all about you cheating on me. Don't deny it."

 

My friend's wife did not ask for a divorce. They are still together. They have 2 kids, 6 and 4.

 

My question is: If you cheat is it inevitable you get caught? I never thought he'd get caught. He was taking girls on dates in the town he lives in and still never got caught til the baseball game.

 

the only p**** here is your friend that is cheating on his wife. Serves him right getting busted

the only p**** here is your friend that is cheating on his wife. Serves him right getting busted

 

+1000

 

People who cheat are immoral and weak. I don't care how s***ty your marriage is, work on it or get out, THEN go bang the 22 year old. I cannot fathom doing something like that to my wife.

Saw on Facebook that an ex of mine got engaged. Haven't talked to her in 2 years but it's natural to feel weird about it, isn't it? Not my first ex to get engaged.

Starting to feel like a Good Luck Chuck. Ha

 

My trainwreck from a couple of months ago is just that and more. Haven't talked to her in awhile but a mutual friend said she started dating a guy and is cheating on him with a bartender. I won't say this often, but you guys were right. So glad to be away from her.

 

But she was so hot...

Brian, my take is, good for you on getting to bang a truly hot woman. But you are better off not being with her. You said it all with the word "trainwreck." That's cool you got to bang a perfect 10. Are you a modelesque type guy who gets a lot of 10s? Good for u.

 

+1000

 

People who cheat are immoral and weak. I don't care how s***ty your marriage is, work on it or get out, THEN go bang the 22 year old. I cannot fathom doing something like that to my wife.

I don't condone cheating and feel guilty that I didn't tell him not to cheat. I did finally tell him, "Maybe you should start a new leaf and go to counseling and never cheat again. Just tell yourself it was a good run, I got caught, she forgave me and now I'm gonna be a good husband.' He told me that won't work as even though he got caught he's still seeing the mistress. He said he loves his wife and loves his kids but he's an addict and needs to cheat. His wife is so nice. She doesn't want to leave him. The kids are so cute. It's a perfect little family. But he said he can't stop cheating.

I do feel badly because at the wedding the minister challenged the congregation to "help these 2 avoid the pitfalls of marriage." It's like the minister knew he was gonna cheat. I haven't done a very good job of stopping it. This guy has been to Vegas with me and friends and on all the trips he gets hookers when we would never think of doing that. He makes a good buck and is a good guy but he cheats.

Edited August 14, 201510 yr by greg775

He said he loves his wife and loves his kids but he's an addict and needs to cheat. His wife is so nice. She doesn't want to leave him. The kids are so cute. It's a perfect little family. But he said he can't stop cheating.

 

He doesn't love his wife. If he did, he'd seek treatment for the sex addiction he's claiming he has so he can stop harming his family.

Isn't "sex addiction" not actually a recognized thing in the DSM?

LOL Greg....thank you for being you.

Brian, my take is, good for you on getting to bang a truly hot woman. But you are better off not being with her. You said it all with the word "trainwreck." That's cool you got to bang a perfect 10. Are you a modelesque type guy who gets a lot of 10s? Good for u.

 

 

I don't condone cheating and feel guilty that I didn't tell him not to cheat. I did finally tell him, "Maybe you should start a new leaf and go to counseling and never cheat again. Just tell yourself it was a good run, I got caught, she forgave me and now I'm gonna be a good husband.' He told me that won't work as even though he got caught he's still seeing the mistress. He said he loves his wife and loves his kids but he's an addict and needs to cheat. His wife is so nice. She doesn't want to leave him. The kids are so cute. It's a perfect little family. But he said he can't stop cheating.

I do feel badly because at the wedding the minister challenged the congregation to "help these 2 avoid the pitfalls of marriage." It's like the minister knew he was gonna cheat. I haven't done a very good job of stopping it. This guy has been to Vegas with me and friends and on all the trips he gets hookers when we would never think of doing that. He makes a good buck and is a good guy but he cheats.

 

What if he gets another woman pregnant? What if he gets a disease and gives it to his wife? Sounds like your friend is a giant selfish asshole. If I were you i'd tell his wife he's still cheating. At least give her the facts so she can leave and take the kids with her.

Edited August 14, 201510 yr by Jenksismybitch

Isn't "sex addiction" not actually a recognized thing in the DSM?

 

I have no idea. I'd tend to be skeptical of anyone claiming to have one, but IF it was legit, you'd still be responsible for getting treatment.

I can die happy now.

I can die happy now.

 

oh?

oh?

 

he received the greg775 Royal Seal of Approval for banging hot chicks. That is something to be engraved on a headstone