If the Sox aren't firing him, they are on board with what he is doing. If they have a major problem with him, they would fire him. They would not let a guy that they didn't think could lead this team manage a team that is just starting its big run, and potentially waste those years. Sure people like Frank Thomas and Steve Stone have opinions, but the only ones that really matter are JR, RH, and KW. If they are OK, he stays. if they don't think he can handle this, he goes. They aren't about to waste time here. Replacing RR would be a MUCH cheaper option spending for players. I think you are retreating a bit from your original opinions hear to soften up the original statements to make them a bit more gray, so hopefully you realize that no front office would let a manager just do whatever the hell he wanted, especially if they thought it was stupid. These guys are 100% working together on this decision making. They made decisions during the season which were intended to try to get the guys they thought coming into the season would be best for the team in the playoffs.
You mentioned things like EE hitting fifth. I am sure they weren't just looking at this seasons number and instead were judging him on the hitter he has been his career thinking that the team would be way better off with a vintage EE, than anyone else on the team in that role, so they tried to get him back there. I promise you that if RH and KW had a problem with this, RR would have gotten a talking to and it wouldn't have happened more than once, or they would have fired him. No management would tolerate mid level leadership who refused to be a team player, and the White Sox aren't any different. RR is here because RH and KW think he can do this job. If he was running around on his own, he wouldn't be here.